You just made me laugh. I don't think you mansplain! :)

I am much better this morning. I spoke to my daughter for an hour last night. I was in tears, I suppose. The difficulty with finding accommodation in Porto (In Portugal, you have to have a guarantor, and I don't have that) so that weighed heavily on me as well.

It wsa all spoken about, and although I do now feel more alone, I guess I will cope. Thank you for your support. And I already have another story in my head.