You just made me laugh! I love cake and all things wheat, and it definitely doesn't feel the same way about me!
People have different reasons for writing. I write for a llving, but I also write about the things that deeply concern me, and I write for fun, and I write because it's a way of giving myself solidity - as if I'm actually real!
That probably doesn't make sense, but for most of my life, I was shoved aside, so writing things is evidence to me that I'm actually here.
That's what I mean about people writing for different reasons.
I wish you the very best.