You're confusing factual statements with whining.

No, I don't want your empathy, your sympathy, your pity, or your compassion. I find it patronizing. There is nothing that gives me the creeps more than people trying to make me feel better. I am not concerned about my feelings. I observe them, feel them, and focus on what needs to be done.

I'm sorry you think that I share what I happned to me because I want sympathy because life treated me unfairly. In any other country, it wouldn't be necessary.

In America, it is necessary for me to give a reason why I'm not rich if I'm so clever, why I'm not a bestselling auithor if I'm such a talented writer, and why, if I was born with a silver spoon in my mouth, I am dirt poor. I merely give my background to prevent those kind of responses. Through the years, many people ask those questions. I've simply written it out so that I can give the link to those who ask those sort of questions.

In other places, we assume that people had unfortunate circumstances that they had to deal with. We do not assume that they are whining, lazy, stupid, etc.

I think it's probably better than you read someone else. You have completely misunderstood who I am - probably because you're not a thinker.