When I was 25 (1974), I went to a psychologist to ask her why I couldn't find a boyfriend. She immediately berated me and told me to enjoy my single life, and that a man wasn't necessary.)
Today, I would tell her to keep her feminist ideology to herself, and if she couldn't help me with the problem for which I came to her for, then to refund my money, and I'd go somewhere else.
I absolutely am not a feminist, and, no, feminism fiights for equal pay (that is such bullarkey), and berates men for this and that, whatever. I have yet to encounter someone who is a feminist who hasn't been brainwashed to be one.
You're actually normal. I have been single for a lifetime (70 this year), and it's not pretty. These days, most working women hate their jobs. They want to be home with their kids, enjoying being a mother.
I'm afraid, biology does matter.