Well, I've always been perfectly content to have a nothing or a nobody. Have you listened to Alain de Botton's video on why an ordinary life isn't good enough anymore?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1KDB42qGT-8

According to his video on status anxiety, about 95% of people wake up in the morning more concerned about their status than anything else.

That leaves 5% of us that couldn't care less.