Well, I'm a hardcore atheist, and I have never found any evidence that Jesus actually existed. The New Testament tales are taken from the Babylonian religion of the time (rising from the dead after three days).
I wouldn't even begin to think of someone taking a morsel of food from my plate as shitty, and I'm surprised that you do.
None of the minor things you mention would be defined as cruel or unkind. Bullies, however, are cruel and unkind. So are psychopaths and others of that ilk. So I used exactly the right word.
I have no time for Jesus' message either. From long experience, it doesn't work.
Thanks for taking the time to respond. Much appreciated. I was wondering...