Well, if a man asks.eout, I expect him to pay tbe bill. And no, he doesn’t get sex in return. I will spend my very valuable time with him, but I am sure as hell not going to pay the bill as well.

On the otber hand, if I ask a friend to go for coffee, I will pay. And no, I won’t sleep with him either.

I have no idea why some women use men to fund items they want, but thenI don’t want the kind of items they want.

I much prefer to be financially independent, and to be able to foot tbe bill for the things I want.

What I don’t want is to carry a man emotionally. It’s draining. At a certain age, people need to develop emotional maturity and not need others to need them.