Well, I just dated whoever asked me out. I came from a very high-profile family, went to a private school, and had stunning looks. So, at one period, I had a different date every night,
Different guy every night 7 days a week for 18 months before I became bored. It didn't do anything for me, and I never dated anyone twice. I just went along with what happened to me. I am inexperienced sexually - never really felt sexual attraction to any of these guys. Seldom remembered their names.
Yes, you're right about the Asperger's. I had no idea these men were interested in me. I thought they were asking me out because they were being gentleman and didn't want me to sit at home on my own. I also thought, as a result of the chronic abuse I lived through, that I wasn't supposed to speak to them. I had always been told to shut up. So being on good behaviour when I went out, I shut up. ;)
That said, the experiences I mention here mostly happened in my 50s. And I knew a lot more then.