Unless they have Asperger's, an auditory processing disorder, and are stunningly beautiful. I was traumatized at the age of 29 by the church, then by work a few years later. I was in a senior position, earned a packet of money, and the other women resented me. No, I didn't talk to them. Nothing to do with trauma - just high functioning autistic, and had no interest in standing around the coffee machine gossiping with others.

What they did, added to what the church did, traumatized me to a degree that took 20 years to undo.

The mistake that counselors and therapists make is that they assume everything is from childhood. It's not. A great deal of trauma happens during adulthood, and a lot of it has to do with verbal thuggery, loss of jobs, loss of income, no food to eat, etc.

Without knowing the evidence and what happened, you sure jump to a lot of conclusions.