This is why I have very little respect for men. One of the aspects of emotional maturity is the ability to stand on one's own two feet emotionally. I don't respect anyone who relies on other people for emotional support - whether they get it from same-sex friends or exes.
This short song I wrote expresses men coming back to women best. :) I will delete this post between 24 hours and 48 hours. Or delete the link if want to keep the response.
https://medium.com/born-to-write/poetry-ballad-for-a-beauty-queen-e7fb65b603c2