There is absolutely nothing on this earth that will ever ever make me have a man near me again. By my mid 40s, right through to my early 50s, I started trembling if a male came within 3 feet of me. In my early 50s, a woman told me that men will never see me - the person inside. They will be so knocked out by the looks, the eyes, the body, that is all they would ever see.

In any event, again, it really depends who you are. My mother had the same issue as I did. I look very much like her. Only she wwas blonde and I was dark.