The research would disagree with you. Industrial psychology testing shows over and over again that the majority of men (73%) base their decisions on logic and evidence while 73% of women base their decisions on their feelings. Men are also 3 IQ points higher than women. That is mathematical IQ. The fact that there is some overlapping at the extreme ends does not mean men and women are the same.

You used a female olympic competitor to compare the average strength of a man with the average strength of a woman.

Sorry to say but while some women are stronger than some men, most men are physically stronger than most women.

The reason that men are trying so hard to be men is in order to compete for women. Maybe somebody should tell them that women are drawn to human beings. ☺