Sorry, no. I have a lot of male friends, and they said the guys I wrote about on this piece were jerks.

No well-adjusted human being can't tell the difference between something that is truly out of this world and fail to recognize that the admiration is actually directed at that, and is not a pretext for hitting someone up.

If I tell the queen that she has a stunning palace, she accepts that it is a comment about the palace - not about wanting to speak to her.

If I tell an architect that his prize winning architecture is a work of art, he accepts the comment for the compliment it is, not as an excuse to talk to him.

The kind of men who cannot tell the difference are inexperienced with women. They are small town people who haven't got sufficient education, sophistication, and life experience to be able to tell the difference. And there are a lot of them in this world.

I t wasn't even possible to see the driver of this car before I stepped up to him at the red light and said it was a fantastic car. If it wasn't a fantastic car, and if he was a stunning looking man, then I might have been interested in him. But as the car has an international reputation for being stunning, and as the two-bit idiot who was driving it was awful looking, it was more than presumption to think that I was hitting on him and not making a genuine comment of admiration about the car. It was actually delusional of the guy.

I'm also resally peeved that you mentioned that the reason that I couldn't ascertain what was going on was because I had a disability. You actually enabled somebody else to pick up on that and assume the same. The guy is clearly also a jerk to think that. I've had to threaten to block him to stop his unwelcome comments.

All my male facebook friends - who are actually quite close to me- told me these guys were jerks of the first water.