Sherry, you have to make peace with this. Sometime things just aren't going to happen. I'm sure you're familiar with the words "I coulda had class. I coulda been a contender. I coulda been somebody, instead of a bum, which is what I am, let's face it."

All things are possible, but sometimes they're just not probable. I think you should have a dual mind approach (this is what I do). I work towards something steadily but I accept i may not or probably won't happen.