Now you really made me laugh!
"I think a person needs to think through things they experience and read and listen to before they form their own opinions."
I'm guessing that remark refers to me.
Let's see. I'm 70 years old. During my school years, I read between 2 and 4 books a day. Since then I've read a book a day. I read for 5 hours ever day. At least. Sometimes I read through the night. I read science abstracts, psychology manuals, economic books and news wires on four continents and several countries - from all different perspectives.
I'm not quite sure what you call 'anger loaded words' but I have a readership, and I've been publshed for 60 years, if you read my reviews, people draw very different conclusions to the one you have arrived at.
I"m providing you with a link of what some people have said about my writing. They have said this for many, many decades. The comments in this were made between 2008 and 2012. I still receive comments like that every day of my life.
Of course, there are going to be people who don't like what I say. I understand that. And it's fine. Each to his own.
http://bestebookstories.blogspot.com/2012/09/flattering-words.html