Jeff, there were so many terrible things that men said and did to me, and it was pretty universal. In my early 50s, a woman I met in London told me that men will never see beyond my looks. I think that is true. I don't want to go into details. I am old now. I'm glad it's all behind me. It hurt me so much for a very long time, but I've read enough research on it to understand a lot of it.