I've never had any sort of relationship with a man. I have dated. The longest period I dated a man was for about a month. That was one guy.

The second longest was 4 days.

I got married to someone with half my IQ because the church insisted I get married. He lived in one room and I in another. There was no marriage. I didn't even like him

The extent of abuse by my mother damaged me socially to a degree that would be difficult to explain.

Google Tessa Schlesinger - How I overcame 42 years of chronic abuse