Intelligence has nothing to do with being openminded or closeminded. It is the ability to recognize what is accurate, what is not, and how to solve a problem using accurate information.

Emotional intelligence is just the ability to manipulate others.

None of what you mention has anything to do with intelligence whatsoever.

Again, intelligence has nothing to do with seeking understanding.

You're imposing your idea of a perfect person on what you think intelligent people must be like.