I'm what psychologists call emotionally resilient .

https://www.mentalhelp.net/emotional-resilience/hardiness/?

They all apply except 7 and 8. I get really pissed off when people treat me badly, and my voice rises. I don't scream or anything, but I can be pretty deadly with my tongue.

I also see no reason to be compassionate with people who are jealous, and who harm me by spreading malicious gossip me or who hate me because I have what they don't have. I have been too harmed by their actions and emotions for too long. I don't have time for people who act on their emotions and not their rationality.