I would agree with you that there have been far too many Jews blaming antisemitism for things which had nothing to do with antisemitism . I posted this research, done at an Israeli university, exactly about that. It applies to many different types of victimhood.
In the case of the war between Israel and Gaza, I can see no other solution, probably because I have been studying the Islamic side since 1982, and because I read the Koran in 1969
This has nothing to do with Israel occupying Palestinian land, but I cannot go into that now.
Israelis bomb hospitals and schools where there are Jihadi using them - not because they contain patients and school children.