I once met a woman in San Diego who I worked with as a casino dealer. She was fat and didn't dress well. She was in her mid 40s. She told me that no man had ever looked at her.

She was stunned that I had so much male attention. Men came up to me on the street all the time - nothing to do with my clothing. I simply had Sophia Loren/ Liz Taylor type of looks. She had never reawlized that beauty draws people.

The guy, as I said, was good looking. That's what drew women.

Dressing makes a big difference, regardless of whether one is black or white.

I don't deny that black people struggle in America. Having lived in Africa for about 40 years, I saw black men with white women and visa versa.