I have never come across patriarchy. I have never struggled to do anything that has been stopped by men, On the other hand, the degree of sabotage I have encountered from women is massive.
To claim that I am narcissistic is an ad hominem that reflects badly on you. People who have to use ad hominins don't have any facts. So they shoot the messenger.
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/why-do-women-sabotage-other-susan-r-ralston
https://www.managementtoday.co.uk/why-women-sabotage-workplace/women-in-business/article/1669093
https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/06/queen-bee/488144/