I don’t think you look sexy in the photo at all. I also find it degrading and insulting to be called sexy — especially as there is nothing in the least sexual about me.

I certainly have never spent any time in my life trying to look sexy, although I have always tried to look elegant.

When I immigrated to the States, I was shocked to find that men thought one was sexuallu available if one had cleavage showing. After realizing that I covered up.

I also found that men I had only met minutes before asking me if I was a first date or third date girl. I had no idea what they were talking about (I was 53 at the time). When I found out I was horrified.

Since then, I have more or less avoided men completely and now dress like a slob.