I didn't say other people couldn't learn. I said, I didn't learn. It is why I found therapists so bloody useless. It is also true that what works for one person seldom works for another person.

That's because no 2 circumstances are identical, no 2 people have the same DNA, and time is different, and so is place.

I think what is true is that many people are comforted by reading someone else is in he same situation and got out of it.