I didn't relate to anything you said. Why?
1. Women believe more in gods and other mumbo jumbo because they're more emotional. MBTI shows 73% of women make decisions based on their emotions while only 23% of men do.
2. People in countries where there is shitty social support (financial) for people have a lot more believers in gods. Countries which have excellent social services have very few believers in god.
3. When children are constantly told there is a god, they believe that he exists because the human mind creates its foundation and beliefs during childhood. That's why the god you believe in is dependent on the country you grew up in.
4. No amount of reason, compatible language, etc. will ever alter the debate on god. It has nothing to do with debate. It has something to do with the difficulty one experiences in life and the country one has grown up in and lives in.