For me, doing all these things just to make another person love me, is too much effort for too little reward. I don't have to do any of that for my friends to care for me, and while I realize that the sex element is missing, no sex on earth is worth that type of game playing.

For the record, I am naturally considerate of others and I always have been. I've always noticed that it's seldom noticed. I still do it, though.