And that's it, isn't it? You don't understand what ethics are. We are not talking about morality here.
Ethics are rules that communities live by to ensure the survival and well being of the community. Anything that, collectively, destroys the greater good is unethical.
One cannot be self-interedted and ethical at the same time. Ethics are community based. One has to put the well-being of the community ahead of one's own personal good. Very Un-american, I can assure you.
Driving a car is unethical - it is doing something that collectively endangers the earth